Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Stuck

Well, we just couldn't end this adoption journey without a bang, could we?
Two+ years, agency changes, lost referrals, countless court dates and now this.

Jerry found out yesterday that our Embassy appointment was moved from the 15th to the 29th.
Unfortunately for us, we didn't receive the memo .

So now the question is: Do they travel all the way home and 6 days later, travel all the back for another week's stay,
or
do they stay the 21/2 weeks there?

Our agency is offering to compensate some of the costs and we are trying to figure out which option is the cheapest and wisest.
At this point we think staying is probably best.
Jerry will have time to really get to know Kidus and Biruk and hopefully that will make them a little less fearful and stressed on the flight home, and he will really get to experience Ethiopia.
We had been kicking ourselves that we hadn't planned on making his trip a little longer -although we didn't exactly have 3 weeks in mind!-who knows what God has planned for their time there?
I am amazed really at how God has been right here, working out all the details in spite of seemingly human error.
It was a tough decision to decide not to go, but once I made that choice, I had a great sense of peace about it. Now I know why!
No way could I have left my baby for that long!

So we commit this "mess" into God's hands, trusting that He is here and praying that His will be done!
It's going to be difficult, emotionally and physically, to have Jerry gone so long and I can barely stand to think how much I am going to miss him and my sons!
Yet, God's grace covers me, and I know just as he gave the children of Israel their daily manna, so He will give me just enough peace, joy, and strength to get through each day.



13 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow, Jenni. From an outsiders point of view, it does seem that God has some great plans for your husband and children. You're taking it so well, and handling it in a way I know you'll be blessed. God is in control- and you're resting in that. Thinking and praying for you guys- more than ever.

Bethany said...

Oh dear! Is the change due to the sudden MOWA closure? We think our court date (which is supposed to be this Friday) will end up being postponed due to it. I heard it's affecting embassy dates as well. Wow, well at least it is encouraging to know that God knew this would happen all along and this was all part of His plan. It will be neat to see how this all plays out... :) Blessings to you as you wait at home!!

Heidi Klopfenstein said...

Abby let me know of this last evening!! I have been praying for you and your family since. I can't imagine. It encourages me how well you are handling it all and putting your full trust in God and His plan. I will continue to pray for all involved.

Kristine said...

WOW...just when you think its over! Hang in there...hope the next 3 weeks fly by!!

Jenni said...

Thank you everyone for your kind words! We can really use the pray!
No, it wasn't anything to do with MOWA, it's due to an error on part of our agency.

Shari said...

Holy COW! Oh, Jenni... will be praying for all of you. You have a great perspective remembering that God is good no matter what. (ps. 84:11) But I am sorry you are facing this craziness. The Lord WILL help all of you through this and somehow it will be best for everyone. I am so glad you had the wisdom not to go with little Mikayla needing you for all that time. Love you guys-Shari and Matt

Parch said...

Wow, Jenni...that's hard that you have to wait another 2 1/2 weeks! But it will be nice for the boys to get so see more of Ethiopia before coming home. I hope the next few weeks will go by quickly for you. We are checking out your blog every day...tell Jerry to keep up with his journal. It was very interesting. -Heidi

J Matt Miller said...

WOW, Jenni, It is obvious that God is sustaining you because this seems like a perfect time to be freaking out. We will keep your family in our prayers. ~Diana

ellerbee eight said...

I'm always amazed at how faithful people can be when things go awry. We are praying for you, and believe that God's plans for your family to be in the country with your new little ones a little longer will end up being a blessing. What an opportunity! Praying for you!

Kat said...

God is so good. My husband did the three weeks in our first adoption. I'm sorry your date got moved back, but I'm sure God has some amazing things in mind :). We are praying that the rest of your journey goes without a glitch!!!

Lisa Bates said...

Wow.

Emily B. said...

Oh my goodness! I am so sorry to hear about this newest development. May you all make the best decision possible and may everyone continue to be safe and healthy.

Julie said...

Wow, I'm up in Prescott at elementary camp and just happened to check your blog. If it was me I'd definitely say stay!!!! As hard as it will be it will be so worth it. Praying for all of you guys.